The obituary notice of Daniel Edward Ronald BIRDSEY

Going up with the kids in a few days Robert,to take all your tools over to mammys house.I will put the table you always sat at outside.Then with that cleared we can at least pull the carpet up.I know I’ll have to pick that towel up by your front door.And underneath is all the blood from when you must have hit your head.Well I don’t even know if you did hit your head.I don’t even know if you did fall down the stairs.Im not ever going to get the answers I need.Because only you know what happened that day 🥹

I’m thinking about the 2 rounds of chemotherapy you went through Christopher.The agonising pain it left you in.There was absolutely no improvement after the first round,but you were determined to do it again convinced it was working.Then you were told it had grown a few centimetres and it was in your lymph nodes,and your bones.I did a lot of research on cancer after Daniel lost his life to it.And I could see you didn’t have long but you still had no idea.You were making plans,repeatedly saying we will do this or do that when you got better.You mentally tried so hard,but it just kept spreading and spreading.We had so many years left to do what you had planned but sadly after 41 years it was over for us.Love you so much ❤️

I’ve been out to put bird seed in the bird house Christopher.Ill keep doing it,just like you asked me to 💙

I don’t know if you remember this day christopher.I really don’t know what your brain was like but you were diagnosed in January and this was 23rd of February.I’ve no idea what you did during the night,but this is what you ended up like.Already talking about meeting up with people,but all the people you were talking about had died.Then you were smoothing and feeding our 2 cats,but they had also both died.I’m positive you also had cancer in your brain,but I’m still yet to find out.You we’re such a danger to yourself but didn’t know it.Miss you so much.The house is so quiet without you 💔

Never would I have thought last December,that it would be my husband and brothers last Xmas.It will definitely be different up mammys xmas day without you Rob.Thats why it’s cancelled for me.I will be spending it on my own 💙

You would have been out tonight Christopher looking for the eclipse.You always did,because you loved things like that ❤️